I also do not masturbate very often no more than once a month, if that. All in all, in this environment, this means I will not get a date without considerable effort on my part.
My biggest liability is probably not my looks but my introversion. I am not particularly handsome but not ugly either. I am in good physical shape but on the thin side. This is not uncommon in Silicon Valley as there are very few single women compared to single men and introverted nerds like myself are greatly disadvantaged. I had not had sex or even been out on a date in several years. At the time of the event I was a 42 year old single man living in Silicon Valley.
